This prompt seems like a double up to me. There was the Nine Things I Can't Handle post a few days ago. Maybe this is a more indepth unravelling of one...but then again, maybe not....because now that I'm writing this I am now becoming more aware of the one thing that gets my goat.
And it's something that maybe no one can do anything about...maybe it's just the way life is.
It really gets my goat that life is....well....seemingly unfair.
I guess I would even go as far as saying that it's the thing that causes me most angst. I don't get it, I don't like it and have probably spent way too much time shaking my fist at the heavens because of it.
But, it's the way life is....and I do know that I need to just accept it and get on with the business of living. Most of the time I can do this quite easily. Sometimes, when things seem to be particularly unfair, it seems impossible.
I guess I try and be a bit of a rule-keeper and believe that if you keep to the rules things should go well. I try and be as honest as possible with government departments, pay people back as quickly as possible, know that as the keeper of the petty cash, credit card numbers and account details I am trusted and do everything I can to be worthy of that trust. Most times this has gone well. Other times, such as when dealing with government departments, I've fallen victim to "the system" - payments have been cancelled or delayed all because of human error. Sometimes one has to practically bend over backwards to prove how truthful one is being - almost to the point of reporting ones shoe size and what one had for breakfast!
Ok...ok....so I can exaggerate sometimes....
But you get the picture.
And take the attack on my dog Maya...I was doing the right thing. I was walking my dog on a leash. I was being a caring and responsible pet owner. When the dog rushed us both Maya and I immediately adopted non-threatening body language - we were still, eyes averted, Maya was even laying on her belly. We were attacked by a large, black dog that was being walked by it's owner OFF THE LEASH. He did not have control of his dog. My dog offered no threat and yet it was savaged and hurt. The owner and his dog left the scene, leaving me with a severely injured dog and (later) a vet bill in excess of $5000*.
It is all not fair. Even if the owner is found and we are reimbursed, it is still not fair. My precious Maya, my sweet, gentle girl was severely hurt and will never be quite the same again.
So...that's what gets my goat. The fact that people who do the right thing as often as possible are often the ones who pay the most and those who don't....well.....just get to do life pretty easy. I know that's not strictly true...but it's the way my mind processes it.
* At the suggestion of some dear friends I have set up a GoFundMe appeal for assistance with Maya's vet bills. If you would like to contribute please visit Friends Of Maya here. *
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